Ask Anna: i am a homosexual man with a base fetish. Just how do I satisfy men who will be additionally into foot?

I will be a 27-year-old man, solitary, and homosexual. I will be extremely into guys’ feet, however in nine years of wanting to satisfy other guys who like male foot, I’ve came across precisely an added guy. I love the looks, feel, smell, and flavor of male foot (well, with regards to the package that is overall attractiveness associated with other guy — some foot are only gross, most likely — and regrettably numerous, if you don’t most, dudes appear to share that view). Where and exactly how do we satisfy other dudes into male legs!? Craigslist was no assistance. The sex and social apps such as Grindr, Scruff, Growlr, Recon and Manhunt are worthless for conference guys particularly into foot. I heard there was clearly team in Chicago which have events for dudes into foot nonetheless it appears no body understands any such thing about where or whenever it satisfies. — Felix Feets

Dear FF,

I don’t know very well what certain party you’re talking about, but if “feet” features its own category on PornHub’s homosexual channel, then it can’t be impractical to find dudes to your kink. a googling that is cursory one thing called Chicago Footies leg Party at Cell Block in Boystown. The next one is Jan. 26.

So that the intercourse apps are not leading you anywhere, and Craigslist is often a (often literal) crap shoot. The other web web sites, teams, or resources maybe you have tried? FetLife certainly has teams and discussion boards you are able to peruse. There’s the Male Feet and Tickling system, A facebook-esque social networking for males into foot. There’s a site called There’s a MeetUp team for Chicago male foot fetishists, which, fine, has only four members, but hey, might be well well worth an attempt or link you to definitely other individuals who might know locations to secure a hot guy who would like to worship your arches (or whichever components you like). There’s a Facebook team (and internet site) called Foot Fraternity, which will be for males into men’s legs and footwear, and claims to be “a destination to make friends, share tips, share pictures and luxuriate in yourself. A location where you could get and view you aren’t alone. There are others! A location of affirmation. Someplace where you are able to share your emotions.” This seems therefore sweet and EVEN that are supportive WISH TO JOIN. And I feel quite tepid about legs.

While being a guy that is gay legs is not the essential widely embraced fetish, it is maybe not probably the most uncommon either. And also as many kinksters will inform you, finding lovers and community and other kink enthusiasts involves perseverance and networking. You will possibly not desire to blast an email to your social media marketing systems detailing your kink to your hundreds of friends, though, the more vocal you may be regarding the desire, the greater amount of likely something will manifest. Think about it as a Vision Board for the penis.

You might like to hit up some of Chicago’s fetish that is fantastic (like Touche, Jackhammer, or the Granville Anvil) and get around — bartenders, clients, the lone guy quietly jerking down within the part, whoever! You might even take to fetish shops or intercourse stores, a number of that are in Boystown, Andersonville, and so forth. We’ve grown complacent using the ease and instant gratification-ness of internet shopping (even for mates), but don’t discount the world that is real a prospective location to make leads and connections.